Friday, October 31, 2008

Those Who Mind Dont Matter.

it amazing to me that so much negative energy can surround me in one day. so many unnecessary spirits can fly my way. my sister said something to me that of course ive heard before but it never made as much sense until today. ''Those who mind dont matter, and those who matter dont mind'' meaning those who accept me and dont mind the person i am today are the ones that should matter to me, those who mind who i am and DONT accept me are the ones who WONT matter. I have been so confused on how to set the two apart but all of a sudden it became so clear today. I will not allow others to help me lose myself. someone also said to me that i am my own person, being strong is possible, and i shouldnt allow what others do AFFECT me. Thats a inner problem i have within myself...or did. I came to the conclusion that God promised me my bad days and I cant afford to allow others to add onto the bad days that are already promised. A stress free life is the only one thing in my life that i can afford. if you love me i love you too, if you hate me i love you anyway.

3 comments:

Ciao Bella said...

well said. i have the same problem but i havent overcome it yet...due to my weakness of being kind to people who dont always deserve it and use it to their adavantage. but big kudos to you. in life people are put there to make it harder and it only gets harder if you actually believe in the crap they say or do to you. But if you really dont care and dont mind them. All they can do is hate with ignorance and you keep pushin' and on the plus side: haters just hate that. Its your life. only care for the people who care for you. Cuz they are the only ones who matter and dont mind who you truly are. Your so lucky to have such a circle. Hopefully i'll be almost as lucky as you.

God Bless

Ciao Bella said...

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http://www.lostinthewillderness.com/2008/10/something-i-had-to-address.html

Unknown said...

i feel youu on thaat one .
this haaas help me come to a
understaandinq of the quote .
so thanks .